Keeping my kids safe online!

August 27, 2016
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As a modern day mom I've read all the dire warnings about the dangers of the internet. Especially for children.

I often tell them:

'You may think you're chatting with a 14 year old girl, but it may very well be a dirty old man!' 

I'm going virtual!


So to keep an eye on my kids' virtual safety I try to keep tabs on the people they associate with. Even if that means going virtual!

So I followed my son's virtual girlfriend on Twitter. And I added his newest girlfriend, Kathy, as my friend on Facebook.

Still, I was surprised when I received this message:

'Hi Mom! I hope you are doing ok. I heard you made an appointment at the hairdresser for Jan on Saturday. Does he really have to cut his hair? I know it's a little long, but it looks so cute right now. But you're his mom and i respect your opinion and decision so i understand if he has to cut it.'

Response to my virtual daughter in law 


After careful consideration I replied:

'Hi Kathy! Thanks for your input, which is greatly appreciated. Your kind words have made me stop and think about Jan's hair. I would not want to make him any less cute. I will use the next couple of days to do some serious reconsidering!
Kind regards,
Jan's Mom'

Her answer


I didn't have to wait long for an answer.

'Thanks! That's all I can ask for.'

I can only hope, any real life, would-be daughters in law, will me as respectful as the virtual ones!

How do you make sure your kids are safe online?

10 comments

  1. Wow - not what I was expecting at all! Way to stay involved, mama. I hope I get to have positive dialogue like this with my kids' friends & dates when the time comes!

    Here from Sits Saturday Sharefest :)

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  2. I get an email everytime my son downloads anything on his tablet. Helps me monitor. I also check his history when he goes to bed. Better to be safe than sorry. #justanotherlinky

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  3. I get an email everytime my son downloads anything on his tablet. Helps me monitor. I also check his history when he goes to bed. Better to be safe than sorry. #justanotherlinky

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  4. Great post showing the importance of keeping our children safe online #justanotherlinky

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  5. That's interesting!! I also hope I have some respectful daughter-in-laws like that haha. #justanotherlinky

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  6. I love your way of staying connected! I teach elementary tech and I'm always reinforcing that kids need to be safer online and aware of their surroundings :)
    Thanks for sharing, Crystal www.loveinspireddetails.com

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  7. My husband and I talk about this almost daily. I follow my teenagers on all their social media, and it's kind of a part time job! So my younger children won't be joining social media quite as early as she did (and that was at 14). It's such a scary world. I love the internet, but I hate it, too. Ugh. Great post! Visiting from Mom-to-Mom Mondays!

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  8. Hahaha, I love it! It will be a great story for telling the "real" daughter-in-law someday! Thanks for joining us at #FridayFrivolity!

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  9. Thank goodness I am not here yet. I'm scared for when I am though!

    Thanks for sharing at #bloggerspotlight! Don't forget to come link up tomorrow night and see who got featured!

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  10. Interesting! The online world i super scary isn't it.

    Thank you for linking up with #justanotherlinky

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